I had a very bad day in my office. My boss got mad on me only for a little issue.
Not a big problem actually. But his anger really made me sick and lost my courage to do my tasks during that whole day.
I tried to lift up my working spirit but unable to do it.
The word of my boss was as sharp as a sword, hit my mind strictly, and made me down.
I talk to myself, "This is the consequence of being an employee. Do not grumble or complain. All employees around the world will exactly experience the same things, only in vary type. Some are even much worst."
My boss was also in a very bad mood at that day. Everyone around him was hit by this angry man. No matter what they do, right or wrong. All will be considered as a guilty one.
The effect of this anger is really bad for everyone. As for me: it can discourage my whole working day, for others perhaps can cause a high blood tension.
One single word, but have a very big impact, once it is appeared.
It is like the domino effect.
A person, who gets this anger, usually will find another victim to explode the angry feeling. And so on.. and so on.
Until everyone get disappointed and frustrated.
What we can do if we get this anger is trying not to get involved in the angry circumstance.
➔Take a deep breath
➔Count slowly one until ten
➔Think logically about the matter
➔Analyze the problem, try to solve it
Hopefully these steps can slowdown the burning tension of the anger chain.